Being able to free yourself from limitations, the ego, and trying to control situations and outcomes will place you in a state of humility. Stop the need to blame or judge, you are no better or no less than another being. Your obligation is to be self-responsible, and to be all that you can be. When you are immersed in that, many wonderful experiences find their way to your life.
Humility is the complete surrender into whatever you are engaged in, with no expectation, obligation or desire for an outcome.